Made’s Angels — Two Sides to Every Story:
A group in Bali demands to be heard.
Starting in 2007 an organization consisting mostly of expatriates and calling themselves
Made’s Angels sent emails throughout the Bali community, “countless”
letters of support to Made Jati, notarized letters to the court in California, and,
as near as I can tell, threatening emails to my children and me.
Aside from the final chapters in which my children and I receive the threats which
drove us from Bali, Made’s Angels don’t appear in Eleven Demons.
But they’ve had an effect on us.
As Nigel Mason—owner of Bali Adventure Tours and Elephant Safari Park, who
described himself in a court document as “I am probably one of Bali’s
best known expatriates and have a high reputation for being one of the island’s
most respected and successful businessmen,”—made clear, I was persona
non grata in Bali, never to be welcome on the island again.
My children and I have never been back.
Made Jati introduced their letters and emails to the California Superior Court as
follows:
Those letters of support—many notarized—included statements by:
- Nigel Mason (owner Bali Adventure Rafting and Elephant Safari Park)
- Jean Lane (owner TJ’s Restaurant, Kuta)
- Mark Keatinge (owner Tropical Building Systems)
- Ni Wayan Sadi (owner of Lemongrass Restaurant)
- Max and Colette Hunt (owner of Travel Mode Asia)
- Mark Moody (owner of Bali Aquatic Safety Services)
- Mike Bradford
- Ni Made Ringan (owner of Bali Design)
- Ni Wayan Netri
- Richard Pearse (B.A., M.Ed.(Sydney), A.M, PhD (Stanford))
- Vicki Podolsky (Hyatt)
- Anna Jordan
She included an anonymous email broadcast throughout Bali by Made’s Angels:
They worked hard to present a different version of events.
From Nigel Mason:
And Mark Moody:
But their actions did not quite match their words. They refused to talk to me, made
no effort to mediate, rejected any discussion, hung up on me when I called.
And the courts were frustrated in any attempt to look more closely at the story
by Made Jati’s refusal to testify.
Made’s Angels had no documents, although they complained bitterly that
I had posted documents on the uluwatu.com website and discouraged anyone from reading
them because they were about a private family matter. Then they broadcast their
concern about our private family matter all over the internet.
Bules can’t really affect the law in Indonesia of course.
But bules can make life miserable for other expatriates. They can issue threats.
And they can supply testimony.
Two Sides...
It’s true there are two sides to every story. But this doesn’t make
both sides equally true.
In the following pages Made’s Angels present their side through letters
and other documents which Made Jati herself presented to courts in California. And
fortunately we also have many other documents written by Made Jati’s lawyers
and by Made Jati herself, most of which were also submitted to courts.
If there was any ambiguity about events in Bali, events in California cleared them
up: Made Jati fled California, on the advice of her attorney in Bali, Ida Bagus
Wikantara, to avoid discussion of these documents. Made Jati’s Declarations,
including the Declaration by Ida Bagus Wikantara, as well as trial transcripts are
available as
Summary Uluwatu I.pdf. Many other background documents are also available
on this Documents PDF
page.
And finally, we have our children’s attempts to talk to their mother, still
going on today, at
Talk To Bali: Letters to Our Mother in Bali. Talk To Bali
is not the boys’ first attempt to reach their mother, by the way. They've
sent emails to the members of Made’s Angels several times in the past,
but the Angels ignored them.
On the one hand, you might say that whatever the Angels and Made Jati did happened
a long time ago, maybe it doesn’t matter any more.
But the other side of the story is that the boys still don’t have a mother,
she still refuses to talk to them, they still need help with college, and the court
cases still continue while Made Jati refuses to settle. So in this sense, the damage
done by Made’s Angels is deep, painful, and continuing.
It’s time now to let Made Jati and her Angels speak for themselves:
Angels in Court
Julie Duncan, Made’s attorney in California, entered all the Made’s Angels
letters into the court, and she quoted directly from Nigel Mason in her Declaration
of December 2008:
The letters probably had two effects on the court:
- Family Court is primarily concerned with ensuring a stable and cooperative environment
for the children and setting up joint custody arrangements. The Made’s Angels
letters, with their intemperate rage, ensured that the court would rule Bali out
of bounds for the children even for a visit.
- The court had already ordered Made to meet her children, and I had never tried to
prevent her meeting them. The court only expected from her minimal cooperation with
court procedures. In the final judgement, the judge made a point that “...
the court gave the Petitioner so many opportunities to come back to court. The court
gave the Petitioner as much visitation as possible every time the Petitioner was
in town.” And extensive evidence before the court contradicted many of the
Angels’ allegations. Apparently, Made had lied to her Angels.
The California Superior Court did look into the background of the case, at least
as much as it could considering that Made Jati refused to testify and fled California.
The court then issued a Restraining Order against Made Jati and ordered complete
physical and legal custody to me.
Julie Duncan Protects Herself
Julie Duncan withdrew as Made’s lawyer in March 2009, explaining to the court
“I just need to protect myself.” In a Declaration, she explained:
(Attorneys may withdraw from representation to protect themselves from losing their
license to practice law if they discover that their client has been engaged in massive
deceptions. Julie couldn't say that directly, of course. Attorney-client privilege
rules were still in effect.)
Salgado "disses" Julie Duncan
I didn't mind Mr. Salgado saying so, and entering the Angels’ letters
to the court was obviously a dumb move, but Julie Duncan’s possible stupidity
was not the reason for the court ruling. In fact, Ida Bagus Wikantara, Made’s lawyer in
Bali, had advised her to abandon her children and flee.